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In a month on OkCupid, I received approximately 130 messages. I say around" because I deleted so many of them promptly (having them sit in my inbox felt contaminating) that I cannot report with scientific precision the precise count. I actually don't believe this amount makes me special. I really believe it makes me decidedly un-special, because to a lot of the messages' writers I was certainly no more than one more female-appearing thing who might be intrigued by the flitting brevity of a message reading merely sup?" Everyone was constantly telling me that, if nothing else, having an internet dating profile will be a confidence booster due to all the flattering messages I'd receive.

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But that first night was great. I had myself signed in to chat accidentally, because I did not even recognize it was there. When a little message popped right up in the bottom right hand corner of my screen saying Hello, tall girl," I screamed. I checked out the profile of the man who'd messaged me---tall, dorky, kind of funny---and though I did not find him all that appealing, I impulsively decided to chat with him anyway. He was a lad who needed to talk to me! On the very first day of online dating, that is sort of all you really desire. I actually don't even understand what we talked about. I think I was simply overwhelmed by how much it took me back to middle school, flirting (well, discussing) with boys on AIM for the first time. It didn't matter what he looked like (or what I look like, for that matter), or if we had anything in common, or what we were even talking about. He was a boy. Speaking to me. On the NET.

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I had held out on the thought of online dating for a very long time. It appeared like theway women searched for second husbands and guys shopped for casual sex. Itdidn't seem like it was for me. I am young and conventionally attractive. I live in abusy urban neighborhood. I see cute lads walking around all the time (with theirgirlfriends). I was, I acknowledge it, hanging on to this thought of the meet-cute. This fantasywhere the music swelled when he peeked up from his journal and pushed hisglasses back as he looked at me and then we would instantly go out and do cutethings jointly, like eat waffles and argue about Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

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I deleted without a reply and/or blocked the egregious time-wasters. One of the fastest ways to get frustrated from online dating is participating with folks who do not fulfill the standards of what you're looking for. If a man contacted me who appeared otherwise cute/clever/nice but said he wasn't looking for a serious relationship or was not kinky, I would send him a polite note back that I was flattered he wrote me but I did not think we would work out. Guys who were just egregiously not what I was searching for just got ignored. For instance,I'm 27 and my profile specifically said that I was searching for men under age 35. I suppose it's possible that some 39-year-old and I might have found everlasting love, but I wanted to date someone close to my own personal age. That did not stop more than a few men in their late 30s, 40s and even 50s from contacting me. Why, I do not know. But I simply deleted or blocked them without apology. And no, I am not sorry.

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