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In a month on OkCupid, I received approximately 130 messages. I say about" because I deleted so many of them promptly (having them sit in my inbox felt contaminating) that I cannot report with scientific precision the exact count. I do not believe this amount makes me special. I really believe it makes me decidedly un-unique, because to a lot of the messages' authors I was certainly no more than one more female-appearing matter who might be intrigued by the flitting brevity of a message reading merely sup?" Everyone was always telling me that, if nothing else, having an online dating profile will be a confidence booster because of all the flattering messages I'd receive.

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