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I really believe plenty of the problem has to do the enormous amount of attention the women receive. They might promise everyone on there's "creepy," but I think the problem lies more with the fact they receive so much continuous focus, that those people who are decent just simply get lost in the shuffle. The girls I work with use online dating essentially describe it like looking through a catalogue. They always get bombarded with messages, they fast glance in the profile, make a fast (usually shallow) judgment, and move on to the following one. Some have been on the website for several years now and I feel the more attention they receive, the more unrealistic their standards become. It reaches a point where I'm not certain that ANY guy is great enough for what these women are searching for.
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